Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Cannon D

The last thing on my mind is marriage. Obviously since I'm doing 8 months of no dating, it's the farthest thing from my mind. Well on my way to work today I was listening to klove, which is a Christian radio station and all of a sudden Cannon D starts playing. Why? Is what I asked myself before my mouth dropped! What's up with that? It seems strange for that to just start playing randomly on klove. Is this a test? a sign? I really have no idea but it got me thinking...

I really love the idea of being married someday, but I'm not going to settle. I've been through enough and sure, it's making me a stronger person. But why settle for one thing when you could have the best? The best is out there, and the best will be exactly what I need, and who God wants for me. My Prince Charming, it's exciting to think about. You may be wondering what will happen if I meet this man in the next 8 months. Simple, I will continue my journey with God. If it's meant to be, this man will wait for me until I'm done, and it will be WELL worth the wait!

Little piece of advice: The Bible says For this cause, a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24
If you're with someone who is still attached to a parent, or attached to a friend of the  opposite sex that they can not let go...your relationship isn't as strong as you think it is. If you get married and start fighting the  person they are going to run to is that "friend" of the opposite sex, who they shouldn't even be talking to anyways...If they're not ready to leave a parent or a friend, they're not ready for you. Save yourself the heartbreak and end it. Ladies, you want a strong man, not a weak man...or boy! If he's putting himself first before you and your relationship, it's not love. We all love the idea of a relationship and having someone there, you just need to figure out if you really love the person, and that's exactly what I'm doing.

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